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Remembering Mike<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n He was short, that\u2019s for sure. I\u2019m not a tall man, but I was a head taller than Mike. That\u2019s all I knew about him. He was not very tall. He was a rather small man.<\/span><\/p>\n For the longest time, Mike and I would pass each other on our daily walks. We\u2019d say \u201chi\u201d as we passed each other on the path. Sometimes we\u2019d even comment on the weather\u2026 \u201cIt\u2019s a beautiful day.\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s a hot one today!\u201d \u201cLooks like it\u2019s going to rain\u2026\u201d<\/em> Just short observations \u2013 pleasantries. Small talk, if you will.<\/span><\/p>\n I must have passed Mike a thousand times over the years. We both walked a lot, and we both walked around the same time. Funny \u2014 we didn\u2019t know each other \u2013 we didn\u2019t even know where the other lived.<\/span><\/p>\n We were just passers-by on the walking trails, exchanging brief pleasantries and light small talk.<\/span><\/p>\n Then one day it occurred to me, maybe it would be nice to introduce myself to Mike, whose path I crossed so many times on my daily walks. But I\u2019m a procrastinator. The idea in my head sounded much better than the situational reality.<\/span><\/p>\n So many times I meant to keep the promise I made to myself and introduce myself to Mike, but I never did.<\/span><\/p>\n Days passed. Weeks passed. Months passed. Years passed. Mike and I passed each other \u2014 \u201cIt\u2019s going to rain.\u201d \u201cLooks like it, doesn\u2019t it?\u201d \u201cSnowstorm coming!\u201d \u201cYep\u2026 I heard that\u2026 just what we need!\u201d \u201cSuch a beautiful day today, isn\u2019t it?\u201d \u201cSure is!\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n We must have spoken more than a thousand words without even taking the time to get to know each other.<\/span><\/p>\n A few months ago, I finally kept my promise to myself. I introduced myself to Mike. His name was Mike Denim, and he lived less than a half a mile from me in my neighborhood. We were walkers, but we were also neighbors without knowing it.<\/span><\/p>\n We started walking together every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday. Mike didn\u2019t walk as fast or as far as me, so on those days, I would plan on slowing my pace so Mike could keep up with me. And after I walked with him back to his house, I would continue walking for a couple more miles at my regular pace.<\/span><\/p>\n I got to know Mike well during our walks together.\u00a0 I learned that he was 79 and lived alone. His wife died from cancer six years ago. He had a daughter and a son, seven grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.<\/span><\/p>\n Mike was a retired Great Lakes freighter pilot \u2013 a captain \u2013 during his working years. He retired fourteen years ago. He missed the excitement and the boredom of traversing the Great Lakes on calm and warm summer days. And the excitement of guiding the huge ship to safe shelter as the November gales approached.<\/span><\/p>\n He regaled me with stories of stormy voyages on the Great Lakes, of encroaching ice as the Great Lake Shipping season ended every autumn, and of leftover ice floes that posed danger even into April. And with a look of leftover fear in his eyes, he told me blood-chilling stories of countless November gales that nearly ripped many a mighty freighter apart.<\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes, while he regaled me with stories of his life upon The Lakes, I would good-naturedly tease him by signing a verse from \u201cThe Wreck of Edmond Fitzgerald\u201d by Gordon Lightfoot.<\/span><\/p>\n The legend lives on from the Chippewa on down<\/span> The ship was the pride of the American side<\/span> I always ended with \u201cCleveland\u201d since Mike and I live less than an hour away from Ohio\u2019s largest city on Lake Erie.<\/span><\/p>\n Whenever I sang of the big lake they called Gitche Gumee, Mike would always start telling me of his endless tales of all the shipwrecks and all the souls lost to the savage, roiling waters of Lake Superior.<\/span><\/p>\n He told me with wild eyes of the many nights he spent plying Lake Superior\u2019s capricious soul as he captained freighters through twenty-five-foot (7.6 meters) waves that tossed those ships around like toy boats in a bathtub.<\/span><\/p>\n When he was not regaling me with stories of his days upon the Great Lakes, we often spoke of our kids and grandkids and his great-grandkids. We spent a lot of time small-talking, too. His favorite foods were coconut shrimp and lamb chops with mint jelly. We spoke of our respective childhoods and how we never wore seatbelts or bicycle helmets and survived anyway. We both yearned for the times when life seemed simpler and we both wondered if it really was.<\/span><\/p>\n Last week, Mike didn\u2019t show up for our walk on Thursday. He didn\u2019t answer his phone. When he didn\u2019t show up on Saturday, I walked to his house. His daughter, whom I had never met, answered the door.<\/span><\/p>\n Mike had a stroke and died last Wednesday \u2013 he would have been 80 next month. I cried and told Laurie, his daughter, I was sorry to hear of his passing and that I will miss my friend.<\/span><\/p>\n I wish I had introduced myself to Mike sooner. I would have loved to have had more time and more walks with him.<\/span><\/p>\n Mike is sailing on that Eternal Sea now, and I know I will think of him often. And whenever I do,\u00a0 I think of the Naval Hymn\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n \u201c\u2026Eternal Father strong to save<\/span> And while I\u2019ll be walking alone again, I will never forget my friend,\u00a0 Mike.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Remembering Mike He was short, that\u2019s for sure. I\u2019m not a tall man, but I was a head taller than Mike. That\u2019s all I knew about him. He was not very tall. He was a rather small man. For the longest time, Mike and I would pass each other on our daily walks. 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\nOf the big lake they called Gitche Gumee<\/span>
\nThe lake, it is said, never gives up her dead<\/span>
\nWhen the skies of November turn gloomy<\/span>
\nWith a load of iron ore twenty-six thousand tons more<\/span>
\nThan the Edmund Fitzgerald weighed empty<\/span>
\nThat good ship and true was a bone to be chewed<\/span>
\nWhen the gales of November came early<\/span><\/p>\n
\nComing back from some mill in Wisconsin<\/span>
\nAs the big freighters go, it was bigger than most<\/span>
\nWith a crew and good captain well seasoned<\/span>
\nConcluding some terms with a couple of steel firms<\/span>
\nWhen they left fully loaded for Cleveland\u2026<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\nWhose arm has bound the restless wave,<\/span>
\nWho bids the mighty ocean deep<\/span>
\nIt\u2019s own appointed limits keep,<\/span>
\nO hear us when we cry to Thee<\/span>
\nFor those in Peril on the sea\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n